Month: July 2020

5 Tips for Dealing with Depression

Depression can be difficult to cope with. Today, I would like to share with you my top five tips for dealing with depression.

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1. Get the right amount of sleep.

This means getting enough sleep. It also means not letting yourself sleep too much. Staying in bed all day can have a really negative impact on your mood.

You’ll want to have some sort of evening routine to get your brain prepared for sleep. It doesn’t have to be a long routine. I will be talking more about evening routines in a coming post.

Avoiding depression naps will be very important. You don’t have to 100% abstain from napping, but you will want to limit it to when you are actually sleepy and feel like it will help you.

You’ll have to pay attention to your own body to learn when you are tired and need sleep versus when you are experiencing fatigue due to depression.

Getting the right amount of sleep is definitely one of my top tips for dealing with depression. It’s not always going to happen, but it’s important to do your best to stay balanced in this area.

2. Set and work toward goals.

These goals should be yours. They should not be focused on what others want or need from you.

They don’t need to be big either. Sometimes making a to-do list for the day and accomplishing some of it will count.

Your goals may be things you need to do, such as take a shower, do the dishes or take your medication. It’s okay if those feel like really huge goals when you’re depressed.

They may also be goals that you want to do like getting back into an old hobby or starting a new one.

3. Stay in contact with people you care about.

In other words, don’t isolate yourself. This can be super challenging when you feel depressed, which is why it’s one of my tips for dealing with depression.

It’s hard to talk to people when you’re depressed for a couple of reasons. First, you don’t have the energy. Second, you may not want them to see you feeling bad because you feel embarrassed or are worried they will be upset or judge you.

It’s important to challenge the beliefs you have surrounding these ideas. You need to remind yourself that people love you and want you around. It’s okay to be depressed and still be seen.

Try to make sure you’re reaching out to at least one person outside your household every day. If a phone call feels like too much, you can try a text.

Schedule out your social time so you can be properly rested and prepared for it. It’s okay to schedule phone calls with friends ahead of time. If they’re a good friend, they will understand.

4. Set a timer for fifteen minutes.

This is a great strategy when you’re feeling overwhelmed by a large or seemingly large task.

You can use this for things like chores you have to do, school work, or really anything.

This allows you to work for fifteen minutes and then take a break, so you don’t feel worried or overwhelmed by the entire task or set of tasks ahead of you. If fifteen minutes is too much for you at this time, try ten minutes or even five.

Getting anything done is better than getting nothing done.

You can also use this to try out a coping skill. Set your timer (depending on the skill, you may have to adjust the amount of time) and try it out. When your timer ends, evaluate how you’re feeling and if this skill seems to be helping.

If it didn’t help, you can switch to a different coping skill. If it seems to be helping, try to continue doing it for a bit longer.

5. Do things you enjoy without having to earn them.

Doing things you enjoy may sounds simple to some, but it can be really hard when you have depression for a couple of reasons. First, you may struggle to come up with the energy to get started. Second, you may not enjoy things the way you used to.

If you’re struggling with energy, I recommend trying the technique above about setting a fifteen minute timer. It won’t give you more energy, but it may allow you to change your mindset around the activity long enough to try it.

If you aren’t enjoying things, sometimes it’s just a matter of sticking with it. Keep trying to add small enjoyable activities to your days and don’t be afraid to try something new.

Another thing I want you to notice is that I said “without having to earn them”. This means you can’t just use enjoyable activities as a reward. You need to be actively building them into your schedule.

It’s important to allow yourself to do things you enjoy, especially when you’re depressed. Try not to feel guilty about all the “more productive” things you could be doing. Life is not all about who can be the most productive.

Some final thoughts

Depression is difficult to cope with. I hope these tips for dealing with depression will give you some new ideas of things you can do to improve your mood.

Depression is not a moral failure. There is nothing you did to deserve it. It isn’t your fault, but there are things you can do to fight back.

You’re going to get through this.

I hope you enjoyed this post and found it helpful! If you did, please consider leaving a comment or sharing a link on your social media. You can find my contact info here. And don’t forget to sign up for my email list below!

Until next time,

Danna

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Journaling for Anxiety Relief

Today, I would like to talk about some ways you can use journaling for anxiety relief.

Journaling can be a great tool for anxiety. It can help you learn how to regulate your thought process better so that you can lower your anxiety in both the short and long-term.

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“And then what would happen?”

This is one technique you can use as a journaling exercise or as an exercise for your thought process. The main key here is to try to be realistic.

Write what you are worried might happen. Then, you continue to write what would happen next until you realize that eventually things will be okay again, even if they are temporarily not great.

Here’s an example:

I might have a panic attack while giving my presentation for class.

And then what would happen?

Well, I would probably start crying and mess up on my presentation.

And then what would happen?

I might not make a great grade on the presentation.

And then what would happen?

I currently have a 90 in the class, so I might end up with a B or a C. But I would still pass. And since this class isn’t in my major, that’s good enough for me.

See how this journaling technique can walk you through the thought process to discover that things will eventually be okay again?

You do have to make sure you catch yourself before you fall into a pessimistic cycle of, “Well, then my life would be over.” It takes practice, but this journaling exercise really can help.

Of course, some things may take longer to be truly okay again depending on the severity of the situation. But things almost always have a way of working out.

Worst/Best/Most likely

This is another journaling technique for anxiety. It’s pretty simple as well and probably the least time consuming out of our journaling exercises here today.

You simply write down the worst case scenario in the situation you’re worried about, the best case scenario in that situation, and the most likely scenario in that situation too.

Here’s an example.

Situation: I lost my job.

Worst case scenario: I can’t afford to keep living on my own and have to move back in with my parents even though I am too old to be doing that.

Best case scenario: I use this as an opportunity to find my dream job or start a new business. I make more money than I ever did before and fall in love with my new job.

Most likely scenario: I have to pick up a job doing something that isn’t what I want to make ends meet until I find a job I enjoy again.

Make a list

This is my favorite method of journaling for anxiety relief. However, it is a bit more complex than the other two methods.

First, you make a list of everything that is currently causing you anxiety.

Then, you pick one to work on at a time. Start with the most anxiety provoking one or the one with the soonest deadline.

After that, write down why it’s making you anxious, what you have done and still can do to prepare, and what you will do if the worst case scenario happens to mitigate the negative effects.

You can then work through the rest of the items on the list that are causing you anxiety if you have time. If not, put the list away somewhere you don’t have to look at it and come back to it when you have more time.

Here’s a brief example:

A list of things that are making me anxious

  1. I have a Spanish test this week that I need to do well on.
  2. My friend is starting cancer treatments this month.
  3. My phone is about to break and I don’t have the money to replace it.

Why is it making me anxious: My Spanish test is making me anxious because I really want to get a good grade in that class. I have never taken a foreign language test before, so I don’t know what to expect.

Preparation: I have watched the study guide videos multiple times. I attended class regularly. I have met with my professor during office hours and still have time to do so one more time before the test.

Worst case scenario: If the worst case scenario happens and I fail the test, I will meet with my professor to see what the chances of me passing the class are to decide if I should withdraw. If I can still pass the class, I will try to see if my professor can show me where I went wrong so I can improve.

Thoughts on journaling for anxiety relief

These techniques can all help lower your anxiety.

When you are considering which journaling exercise for anxiety relief to choose, consider how much time you have and how many things you are feeling anxious about.

Don’t be afraid to try journaling for anxiety relief. It really is a great tool to have to help you with your mental health.

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Until next time,

Danna

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